It's never about THEM

It’s never about them.

It’s about what you make it mean today: the story you tell yourself now about what happened.

It’s not about forgiving those who wronged you.

It’s about releasing the story that says you weren’t enough and that’s why they did what they did.

It’s never about the other person.

It’s always about your relationship with yourself after what happened. It’s how you choose to live your life from here on, with that experience as a lesson, as a badge of honor.

Others are mirrors,  reflecting what’s within, what needs healing, what’s ready for rewiring. Sometimes those mirrors appear so you can practice a new way of showing up, loving, or protecting your energy.

Resentment is only a smoke veil, covering a deeper truth: sadness, pain, hurt. That’s what’s asking for your attention, your compassion, your love.

Don’t waste your energy on resentment. Use it as a doorway: to more love, to a better relationship with yourself, to a deeper understanding of who you truly are.

Because the truth is: you have always been enough.You have always been worthy. Especially of your own time, presence, and love.

From my heart to yours

Ale 🐦‍🔥